Independence

Hello Friends...
Its the time of the year that we celebrate independence day...
just a thought came to my mind...
and while listening to Dr. Wayne Dyer's Audio about how to be a NLP (No- Limit Person)
something i would like to share with all of my friends

Independence..
What is Independence according to you..??
Is It freedom...??
Freedom from what..???


My Thoughts here is that Independence is the act of NOT being IMMOBILIZED by other's opinion, behavior and comments
what i mean is...
we should not be effected by what others say or do..
we should remain always happy...
by being immobilized..or by being effected...
what we are doing is actually... allowing the opinions, behaviors and comments of other people to be more important than our own opinion behavior and comments.

other people may want to spoil our day
some may do this purposely to us..
some may do this without any purpose....

It could be somebody talking about u behind your back
it could be somebody insulting u right at your face
it could be someone telling u things like.."ur fat, ur ugly,"
It could be someone taking ur favorite seat
it could be someone spilling coffee on ur table..

our reaction to the above instances would be...
we would get upset, frustrated, mad, angry, hatefull..
or we could just not let it affect our lives


i know you might be saying.. its easier said than done..
and if you are seeing at the extremes...


hope this thought is useful
and to all my friends..
i hope that they be happy no matter what..
because
happiness is not the end..
happiness is the way..


Happy Independence Day

Cheers


crafted by:Mahesh Mahtani